KAIKENA

A Little Help Goes A Long Way

Real people, thoughtful introductions, and room to connect at your own pace.

Build A Profile

Open My Profiles and choose Create A Profile. Add a screen name and photographs; content is optional. Choose one specific connection type and set matching preferences for public discovery. Saving creates an active, public profile. Use the status and visibility buttons on your profile card or in the editor to change this. A profile with only photos is an ordinary profile. Create another profile for another intention, or duplicate one you already own.

Find People

Choose Matches from an active public profile. Both profiles must match each other’s age, gender and approximate distance preferences and the same specific connection type. Liked and Not Interested choices are removed from fresh results. Not Interested choices expire after 60 days. You can revisit your lists, clear a choice or unblock a connection.

Choose What To Share

Set a profile private to keep it out of public matching. From Sharing, select the recipient’s profile and the private profiles you want it to see. Revoking access removes that access immediately. Each grant is for one receiving profile. Other profiles on either account are not automatically exposed.

Manage Messages

Choose the sending profile before starting a conversation. Your conversation notes are private to your side. Archiving organizes your inbox. Retention can be forever or a fixed period; when either participant chooses a shorter period, the shorter period applies. Permanently removing messages affects both participants and cannot be undone.

Work With Your AI

Give a capable AI the AIXE discovery document and authorize the actions you want. It logs into your existing account and chooses one of your profiles. You can maintain private Thoughts for context, ask for a draft, discuss matches, and authorize an ordinary introduction message. The AI receives the same access boundaries as the website.

Get Back Into Your Account

Use Forgot Password for an email recovery link. Password changes invalidate existing sessions. Account Settings lets you change your email or deactivate your account. If an action fails, a red notification explains what needs attention; successful actions appear in green at the top of the screen.